I Used to Say
I used to say “You stupid idiot” “How could you be so dumb?” “You’re a failure.” When I made mistakes Words reserved for someone we…
Finding Inner Peace
So often we seek external validation. Approval from our parents. Our peers. Or even people who truly don’t give a shit about us. And sometimes…
A Love Letter to Myself
I usually like to downplay my own accomplishments. I don't like to admit that I worked really hard for what I have. I don't like…
It’s Time to Stop Chasing Love
And as a female, I grew up believing that my ultimate goal in life was to find my perfect man and start a family with him. Instead of developing my mind with academics and working towards tangible goals to improve myself as a person, I felt insecurities about my weight and appearance constantly.
How to Deeply Connect to Another Person
Deeply connecting to another person is a lot like meditation. You must empty your mind of all thoughts that you're holding onto and feelings that…
I Fucked Up
I fucked up. I fell for the illusion of love for so long that I truly believed this was all I needed in my life…
The Beauty of Traveling Alone
Traveling alone is scary. It truly forces you to rely on yourself more than you probably ever had to in your entire life. Every problem…
Figuring Out the Meaning of Love
I find it difficult to discern whether a relationship is negative or if I am merely reading too much into things. Over the years I've…
Growing Up in Chaos
Growing up in a chaotic environment dramatically impacts how one perceives reality. Because every moment was unpredictable, and when I say unpredictable, I mean ridiculously…
Always the Weirdo
I wonder why there is such a negative connotation surrounding those who are different from the rest. Possessing specific passions, standing out, and thinking differently…
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